Offerings

Ritual Date Night

Somatic Practices for connection

Ritual Date Night Offering

Reignite Connection: A Ritual for True Partnership!

We all desire to stay in connection with ourselves and our partners, but modern day life doesn’t set us up for success.

Ritual Date Night is a recorded 90-minute guided experience designed to provide intentional structure, whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner, to help bring the flow into your connection. Simply going on dates doesn’t guarantee true connection. Connection often needs to be nurtured before the planned date even begins. These practices offer a way to do just that.

The practices Lindsay and Sean share are simple yet profoundly impactful: breathing, movement, eye contact, sensation awareness, and thoughtful sharing prompts. These rituals are designed to be easy to revisit, allowing you to return to them time and time again—whether you’re preparing for a date or weaving them into transitional moments throughout your day. By learning these somatic practices, you can integrate connection into your routine, making them your own. Whether you’re nurturing your relationship with yourself or deepening your bond with your love, these practices will guide you back to what truly matters.

Rituals have a clear beginning, middle, and end, creating a container of trust that allows you to fully let go and be held in the experience. Some invitations in Ritual Date Night may feel new or challenging—like a muscle you’re strengthening—but that’s where the magic lies. True connection, whether internal or shared, blossoms through intention.

This offering is about bringing an accessible spark of depth and connection to your moments of presence. In the ebb and flow of relationships—whether with yourself or another—it’s easy to feel lost at times. These simple rituals can be your North Star, a guiding light back to True Partnership with yourself and others.

Bring your curiosity, compassion, and intentionality—and we’ll take care of the rest!

 

What people are saying about Ritual Date Night:

“This experience cracked open my husband in a beautiful way!”

“I felt so held by Lindsay and Sean in a way that helped me to go deeper than I have been able to in my solo practices. Thank you!”

“Ritual Date Night helped me to see what my desires are in partnership!”

What to Expect from Ritual Date Night

Setting the Intention: Lighting the Candle & Guided Meditation to Open the Ritual Space

The ritual space opens with mindful intention by lighting a candle and engaging in a calming guided meditation from Lindsay. This sacred practice helps center your energy and opens the space for deep connection and presence.

The Science Behind the Ritual: Understanding the Neuroscience and Benefits

Lindsay and Sean explore the powerful neuroscience behind rituals and how they enhance emotional and physical connection. Understand how engaging in intentional practices rewires your nervous system for deeper, more meaningful interactions.

Deepen Your Connection: Exploring Somatic Practices for Intimacy

Learn somatic practices from Lindsay and Sean that ground you in your body and deepen the connection between you and if applicable, your partner. These practices promote intimacy, presence, and physical connection, allowing you to foster a more connected, intimate relationship.

Anytime Access: Revisit the Recording at Your Leisure

Access the recording whenever you wish, allowing you to revisit the practices and rituals at your own pace. Whether you want to reinforce the connection or relive the experience, this recording is available for you to enjoy anytime.

Outline, Playlist, & Resources to Create the Magic Anytime

The accompanied comprehensive guides gives you all the tools to recreate Ritual Date Night whenever you desire. Access the detailed outline, handpicked playlist, and valuable resources to bring the magic of the ritual to life on your own terms. Our desire for you is that you make these practices your own by weaving them into your daily life.

Offering Cost

$44
Lindsay Gates

Lindsay Gates

Certified Sex, Love, & Relationship Coach, MS in Counseling

Lindsay Gates holds a master’s of science degree in counseling and is a certified Sex, Love, & Relationship coach. She is passionate about teaching somatic practices that empower individuals to step away from carrying the relational load and move toward True Partnership. Lindsay is dedicated to guiding others in rewiring their nervous systems through somatic techniques and self-pleasure practices. Rooted in her belief that “we must feel it to heal it,” her holistic approach offers a powerful path to self-development and transformation.

Sean Melton

Sean Melton

Carpenter and Movement Coach

Sean works full-time in construction but approaches life with a broad and open perspective, embracing diverse realms of experience. With a background in fitness and movement coaching, he continually seeks ritual spaces to deepen his capacity for growth and connection. Sean brings intentionality and mindfulness, offering grounded presence in his supportive role. Above all, he takes pride in his most cherished role in this space: being a True Partner to the goddess Lindsay.

You Choose the Time.

 Hit play, press pause, and make these practices your own…

all from the comfort of your own home.

Core Offerings

Testimonials

Unearth Your Inner Gem!

Lindsay has a unique air about her that just exudes trust and kindness. I just want to open up to her and be vulnerable and raw, expose all of myself to her, because I know I will be held immaculately thru it all! She is a gem and helps excavate the gem within us as well.
Kalev

Unearth Your Inner Gem!

Lindsay has a unique air about her that just exudes trust and kindness. I just want to open up to her and be vulnerable and raw, expose all of myself to her, because I know I will be held immaculately thru it all! She is a gem and helps excavate the gem within us as well.
Kalev
Kalev

Heartfelt, Attuned, Transformative Presence!

Lindsay staffed the Vita-Eros retreat I recently did. From day one, she was tuned into me. She gave me a whole list of my good qualities that even I wouldn’t have come up with. At the same time, she could see where I was bottled up and holding back. Throughout the retreat, she invited me to loosen up and play. More importantly, her attention made me feel at home in what otherwise could have been an intimidating environment. She did some beautiful energy work...
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James

Heartfelt, Attuned, Transformative Presence!

Lindsay staffed the Vita-Eros retreat I recently did. From day one, she was tuned into me. She gave me a whole list of my good qualities that even I wouldn’t have come up with. At the same time, she could see where I was bottled up and holding back. Throughout the retreat, she invited me to loosen up and play. More importantly, her attention made me feel at home in what otherwise could have been an intimidating environment. She did some beautiful energy work on me while I was having a huge healing, releasing a lifetime of grief. Lindsay loves her work which means she puts her heart into it. I believe love is the most powerful healing tool on earth. Lindsay has it in abundance! Thank you Lindsay, for making that retreat the most powerful one I have ever done!
James
James

Incredible Space Holder!

Lindsay is an amazing space holder! She has a natural ability to tune into you and meet you where you are at with no judgement, only love. She sets a container that is safe and welcoming to all experiences whether working with an individual or in a group setting. I highly recommend working with Lindsay no matter where you are coming from.
Taylor

Incredible Space Holder!

Lindsay is an amazing space holder! She has a natural ability to tune into you and meet you where you are at with no judgement, only love. She sets a container that is safe and welcoming to all experiences whether working with an individual or in a group setting. I highly recommend working with Lindsay no matter where you are coming from.
Taylor
Taylor

A Ritual Date Night to Remember!

Ritual Date Night was an enjoyable and a learning experience. Determining my obstacles and what I desire ( excluding another to provide that for you) was more difficult than I thought. It made me look into myself and really and scan my true feelings. It was valuable for me to think about what I liked about my partner and about myself. Something I should do regularly. Lindsay and Sean were a great team ….enthused, relaxed, sincere ….offering simple, practical yet thought-provoking ideas. “Slow down and...
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B. Kathleen

A Ritual Date Night to Remember!

Ritual Date Night was an enjoyable and a learning experience. Determining my obstacles and what I desire ( excluding another to provide that for you) was more difficult than I thought. It made me look into myself and really and scan my true feelings. It was valuable for me to think about what I liked about my partner and about myself. Something I should do regularly. Lindsay and Sean were a great team….enthused, relaxed, sincere….offering simple, practical yet thought-provoking ideas. “Slow down and bring compassion when interacting with your partner.” Let’s write that in the snow, the sand, wet concrete, wood burn it, cross stitch it or use it for your next graffiti gig. I hope to see more encounters with Wolf and Moon Coaching.
B. Kathleen
B. Kathleen

Support that Transforms and Heals

I had the pleasure of meeting Lindsey during a Tantra retreat, where she served as one of the assistant coaches. After one of the practices, I found myself needing more support to process and move through my feelings. I chose to approach Lindsey for this. From the very start, Lindsey was incredibly approachable, open, and deeply sensitive to my needs. She made me feel completely seen and understood, offering a safe space where I could truly express myself. With her compassionate and loving presence, she guided me through shifting my perspective in a ...
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Tsalika

Support that Transforms and Heals

I had the pleasure of meeting Lindsey during a Tantra retreat, where she served as one of the assistant coaches. After one of the practices, I found myself needing more support to process and move through my feelings. I chose to approach Lindsey for this. From the very start, Lindsey was incredibly approachable, open, and deeply sensitive to my needs. She made me feel completely seen and understood, offering a safe space where I could truly express myself. With her compassionate and loving presence, she guided me through shifting my perspective in a way that felt both gentle and profound. Her approach was rooted in love, and it gave me the confidence to explore and release what I was holding onto. I left the session feeling lighter, with more clarity, and deeply grateful for the experience. I wholeheartedly recommend working with Lindsey. She genuinely creates a safe and nurturing space for personal growth and transformation.
Tsalika
Tsalika

My relationship with my masculine and feminine truly blew my mind!

My work with Lindsay was transformational. I came to her looking to move past a physical block when engaged with a partner, but ended up going so much deeper and looking at the parts of myself that were obscuring my availability for true intimacy in all relationships in my life, especially with myself. We explored childhood and adult experiences through somatic and emotional exercises and ultimately I met the parts within me that are able to hold me during challenges. Our exploration of my relationship with my ...
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Jess

My relationship with my masculine and feminine truly blew my mind!

My work with Lindsay was transformational. I came to her looking to move past a physical block when engaged with a partner, but ended up going so much deeper and looking at the parts of myself that were obscuring my availability for true intimacy in all relationships in my life, especially with myself. We explored childhood and adult experiences through somatic and emotional exercises and ultimately I met the parts within me that are able to hold me during challenges. Our exploration of my relationship with my masculine and feminine truly blew my mind and changed how I relate with my family, friends, and partner. She also provided tools to keep me on track outside of our work, and her meditations have served as a powerful tool for me to drop back into the mindset that we tapped into while in session. Through this work, I have been able to move past physical blocks and relate in a more intimate and pleasurable way with a partner as well as develop stronger boundaries and a more solid sense of who I am and how I show up in the world. Our time together has helped me accept my own sensuality and Being on a level I didn't know I was missing! This intimacy and parts work is something I cannot recommend enough! Thank you, Lindsay!
Jess
Jess

Deep Presence and Support

I had the pleasure of being supported by Lindsey during Layla Martin's Eros retreat- and even so intimate as we shared one of the partner practices together. Even though that partner practice was only an hour long, I could feel the potency of Lindsey's embodiment, wisdom, and capacity as a coach/space holder. It was an immediate energy of safety, compassion, support, and love I felt from her, even before we shared a word or practice together. Throughout the practice, I felt Lindsey's encouragement and celebration in my liberation as well as her compassion &...
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Ashley M.

Deep Presence and Support

I had the pleasure of being supported by Lindsey during Layla Martin's Eros retreat- and even so intimate as we shared one of the partner practices together. Even though that partner practice was only an hour long, I could feel the potency of Lindsey's embodiment, wisdom, and capacity as a coach/space holder. It was an immediate energy of safety, compassion, support, and love I felt from her, even before we shared a word or practice together. Throughout the practice, I felt Lindsey's encouragement and celebration in my liberation as well as her compassion & acceptance (as I was in a space of deep trigger). She held my energetic, emotional, and quite literal body with reverence & love, something I had not deeply experienced in my life until this practice we shared, through her deep listening and attunement. She was a "yes" to all of my experience - which I found allowed me to drop into the experience even more and helped me find my own deep "yes" for all of my experience. And on top of the deep space she held and led me through, there were moments of laughter and play. This deep practice that I shared with Lindsey really showed me how I could stay with & honor myself while receiving the support of & surrender to another- and it really set me up in deep knowing and confidence that I could co-create the type of experience I came to the retreat for (which happened the next day!). In my short time with Lindsey, she truly helped me anchor into my power, truth, and deeper acceptance + compassion for myself. I could only imagine how this would deepen with her as my coach!
Ashley M.
Ashley M.

Transformed My Relationship with Anxiety!

Lindsays anxiety hangover class helped me in a profound way that I was not expecting at all. I had no expectations going to the class, just curiosity as I have suffered from anxiety in many forms throughout my life. Lindsay created a beautiful container for the class. I felt safe and at ease, which really helped me drop in and connect to my anxiety in a way I hadn't before. I learnt about the different types of anxiety, which was really interesting and helped me reflect on just how many areas it was ...
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Evonne

Transformed My Relationship with Anxiety!

Lindsays anxiety hangover class helped me in a profound way that I was not expecting at all. I had no expectations going to the class, just curiosity as I have suffered from anxiety in many forms throughout my life. Lindsay created a beautiful container for the class. I felt safe and at ease, which really helped me drop in and connect to my anxiety in a way I hadn't before. I learnt about the different types of anxiety, which was really interesting and helped me reflect on just how many areas it was affecting me. Lindsay took me on a journey that helped me discover and understand my anxiety better. What I really loved was that it felt fun and light. Like playing a game nearly. I felt it was so accessible. Something I could share with friends and family. I felt really happy and joyous after the class. I had this new understanding and appreciation for my anxiety. The best part was the next day when I went into a situation in work that has been causing me great anxiety daily for nearly a year. The situation came up....and incredibly my anxiety did not. That repeated looping voice that once it started would not stop...just did not appear. I even called it out. It was like it was sulking. The fact that it felt like it was sulking made me giggle. It gave the whole situation a light and playful feeling. This has been such a huge help to me. This tool I think will be a help to me for the rest of my life. I can't wait to share it with my loved ones.
Evonne
Evonne

Stepping into my truest self

Lindsay was able to provide the capacity for space and support that I wanted to explore the next layers in me that were in need of healing. Our shared, sacred time together allowed me to dig deep into my strength and power which enabled me to hold and care for the deep wounds that needed tending. Lindsay artfully ebbed and flowed with me as I explored my desires and helped me to identify my needs. I am stepping into my truest self after working with Lindsay! She is a healer in ...
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Heidi

Stepping into my truest self

Lindsay was able to provide the capacity for space and support that I wanted to explore the next layers in me that were in need of healing. Our shared, sacred time together allowed me to dig deep into my strength and power which enabled me to hold and care for the deep wounds that needed tending. Lindsay artfully ebbed and flowed with me as I explored my desires and helped me to identify my needs. I am stepping into my truest self after working with Lindsay! She is a healer in the purest, gentlest form!!
Heidi
Heidi

Gentle, Intuitive, and Healing

I met Lindsay during an Eros Retreat, which was a very intense time for me in my healing journey. During this time, she was really helpful in helping me see the bigger picture through my experience in life and also holding space for me when I needed warmth and love instead of judgement. Her energy is so gentle but also holds lots of life experience. She is very tuned into what you need even when you are so in the thick of things you can’t see the bigger picture...
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Carla

Gentle, Intuitive, and Healing

I met Lindsay during an Eros Retreat, which was a very intense time for me in my healing journey. During this time, she was really helpful in helping me see the bigger picture through my experience in life and also holding space for me when I needed warmth and love instead of judgement. Her energy is so gentle but also holds lots of life experience. She is very tuned into what you need even when you are so in the thick of things you can’t see the bigger picture. She is a wonderful person anybody who works with her would be so lucky to get to share in her teachings.
Carla
Carla